Today’s post is totally different than my usual. This weekend is Mother’s day and all of America will be celebrating all the wonderful moms in the world. Many of you know I don’t have children but I have an amazing mom! Today’s post will be all about celebrating her and Mother’s Day.
I’ve learned some incredible things from my mom over the years. One thing is for sure it was definitely hard to choose 3 things because everything that I have learned has helped me become the person I am today. Now that I’m older I realized how much of what my mom has said is important. You know those teenage years when you think you know it all and your parents must be insane… OH THE DAYS.
#1 Always be yourself
Back to those high school days. Of course, I wanted to fit in and be and do like my friends did. I thought that’s what life was all about. I’m sure many of you have been in this position and my mom would always remind me to be myself. It’s the great “your friends should like you for who you are.” “Don’t change for anyone.” Back then I thought it was what parents were supposed to say to their kids so they would feel good. Now I realize how true it is. As I said in a recent post, you won’t be everyone’s cup of tea but those who stick around are true friends.
#2 Family comes first
No one has taught me this better than my mom. No matter the situation or time of day she always put us first. To this day if we need anything or are sick with a cold she is there to help us. It’s been such a great feeling knowing that no matter what she will be there for me. It’s also shown me that family is important and should come first. Growing up I always thought being with friends and making those memories was important in life. Time and time again I’ve been proven wrong and know that my mom’s way is definitely the best.
#3 Love, Love, Love!
My family is a funny one (literally). We aren’t overly affectionate but if you are around us you definitely know we love each other. Growing up I wasn’t very affectionate at all. I mean I loved my family and friends but ask them and I had a funny way of showing it. Even when I didn’t want hugs my mom would hug me. Gave me kisses even if she was upset with me. No matter what the situation there was love involved. She taught me how to love and forgive. It’s been one of the greatest lessons I’ve learned to date.
To all the moms out there I hope you have a Happy Mother’s Day! For everyone else give your mom an extra big hug on her day. To my mom thank you for everything! You seriously are the greatest mom I could have ever asked for. I know sometimes I may argue with you or we might not see eye to eye but at the end of the day I’m always here for you the same way you are here for me. I can’t wait to spend another Mother’s Day with you!
XOXO,
Silvia M.
fairyprincessjord says
Your mom sounds like a truly wonderful woman. Mom’s really do teach us the most valuable lessons don’t they?
Silvia says
Aww thank you and yes they do!
Keating Bartlett says
So many great lessons! I’m so envious of those who have a great relationship with their mom. I’m not on good terms with mine these days. But thankfully I have an amazing stepmom and mother-in-law who have been absolute rockstars in my life 🙂
Silvia says
Thanks Keating! I’m glad you have your stepmom and mother in law to be there for you!
Linh Nguyen says
This is so so sweet! Family is definitely first in our family. I have to say that ever since becoming a mom myself, I finally understand her so much more. Happy Mom’s Day! 🙂
Silvia says
I totally agree!
Cameron Dufore says
This is so cute! Definitely perfect for mother’s day, but also a great way to share about your relationship with her!
Silvia says
Thanks Cameron!
adriana says
Aww this post is so sweet! Celebrating our moms is so much fun!
Silvia says
I definitely agree!
Shann Eva (@Shanneva) says
This is so sweet, and your mother sounds like a wonderful woman. I hope you both enjoy the time you get to spend together this weekend!
Silvia says
We had a great time! Thanks Shann!
Rachel R Ritlop says
So sweet! you’re very lucky to have this type of relationship with your mom! don’t ever take it for granted <3
Silvia says
Thanks Rachel!
Virjinia says
Does your mom read your blog because I’m sure she’s honored by all the sweet words you’ve said about her! It’s so awesome to see all the love she’s had for you and your family.
Silvia says
She does! Thank you Virjinia!
abroadnamedpatrice2016 says
So sweet! I love this homage to your mommy. She clearly taught you things you’ll be passing along and your children to their children. Beautiful!
Silvia says
Aww thank you! And yes I definitely will!
nicoleandthecouches says
What a beautiful post and tribute to your mother!! How lucky she is to have you as a daughter!!
Silvia says
You are so sweet! Thank you!
Summer Telban (@SummerTelban) says
This was so, so sweet to read, Silvia! Your mom seems so amazing! <3
Silvia says
Thanks Summer! She is!
Melissa says
Such a wonderful post to your mom! It sounds like you have learned some amazing things!
Silvia says
I definitely have! Thank you!
Janette says
Aww beautiful post. Your mama seems like one incredible lady!!
Silvia says
She is very incredible!
Elise Giannasi says
This is such a sweet post! Thanks for sharing – it’s so fun to get a little peek into your family life. XO!
Elise
Silvia says
Thanks Elise! I’m glad you enjoyed it!
Angela Amores says
I love your post. Your momma sounds like an amazing women. I hope y’all have. Great weekend with lots of celebrating your special momma.
Angela
Silvia says
Thanks Angela! We definitely celebrated her!
Sydney Power says
This is so sweet!!! Mom’s totally are the best, it is so sweet to see how much love you have for your mom
Silvia says
Thank you Sydney!
Anna says
Very sweet post, Sylvia! Wonderful photos of you and your mom!
Silvia says
Thanks Anna!
Greta says
Awww this is such a sweet post! Your mom sounds amazing!
Greta | http://www.gretahollar.com
Silvia says
She is! Thanks Greta!
McKenna Bleu says
This is a great post and awesome for mothers day!
Silvia says
Thanks McKenna!
Kate Simpson says
I love posts like this as opposed to the gift guides… the gift guides are all tailored to moms that are really nothing like my mom, but this is so much more personal and it makes me think about things I’ve learned from my mom.
Silvia says
Aww thank you Kate! Yeah I wanted to do something special for her.
Amy says
Mom’s are the best, aren’t they?! Such a great post for Mother’s day and so many great lessons learned from your sweet mom!
xoxo,
Amy | Pastel N Pink
Silvia says
Thanks Amy! Mom’s are the best!
Amanda says
Such a cute post, soudns liek your relationship with your mom is so special.
Silvia says
Aww thank you Amanda!
Maegan Clark says
What a lovely and sweet post!
Silvia says
Thank you!
Oby Grace says
Awe this is so adorable and so many wonderful life lesson!
xoxo
Oby Grace
http://www.obygrace.com/
Silvia says
Thank you!